
Our ancestors were prudent enough to realise that most, if not all, times a giver assumes a ‘one up’ position with respect to the receiver, who in the process loses his self respect. To guard against this eventuality, they have repeatedly warned the giver that it is his duty to give. Bhagavadgeeta articulates the proper mindset for a giver as follows:
The charity, which is done to the receiver, who deserves it at the time and place and who is unable to reciprocate the favour, by the giver out of his sense of duty, is the charity of a high order (satwikam daanam).
Bhartruhari’s subhashitsangraha maintains that doing good things is what glorifies the various action organs.
The ears are glorified by what they have heard (i.e. studied), not by the ear ornaments, a hand is decorated by the charity it does, not by the bracelet and the body of the good people is decorated by obliging others and not by the sandalwood paste applied to it.
Rgveda, mentioning the responsibilities of a householder, towards the Gods and the fellow beings exhorts,

Without offering the due share to the gods and to one’s associates, whosoever eats the food alone, is verily eating sin and sin alone. I am telling you the truth that such an ignorant person gets the food, without any (moral) right on it. Eating it (without sharing with others) is like death to him.
In a mythological story of a battle between gods and demons, the demons were gaining over the gods. Indra, the chief of the gods’ side was told by an adviser that he should wield a weapon (later to be called Vajra) which the demons have not seen or heard of so far. But, the most important raw material needed for it, was the bones of a renowned sage, by name Dadheechi. So the gods’ emissaries were sent to the sage, who after hearing the cause, volunteered to die and offer his bones to build the Vajra. The name of Dadheechi is remembered with extreme reverence even today because for the benefit of the benevolent side’s victory, he sacrificed his life.
One of the customs, which a householder is expected to follow daily, is named Vaishvadeva (holding to the conviction that every living being has a divine element in it). At noon, after the lunch is ready, he is expected to get out of the courtyard and locate any hungry being (not only human) and feed it a part of the cooked food and then only was he permitted to eat his lunch. A noteworthy feature of this custom is that at least one living being going hungry, is to be fed by the householder, before taking his lunch. The social responsibility of the modern times is confined to only fellow human beings. This daily duty of even a small householder surpassed all socialist philosophies of the modern times.
This cult of givers has always been glorified in superlative terms. It is believed that a bird in India by name, Chātaka (Pied-crested cuckoo), drinks only the rainwater as it falls from the cloud. (Perhaps because, in India, this bird species migrates from southwest to northeast in the early part of the rainy season (June to September) and back from northeast to southwest with the return monsoon.) The poet imagines that the Chātak begs from the cloud only three four drops of water to quench its thirst and the cloud (being an idol of givers), drenches the entire landscape.
Another idol of the givers is the trees.
Oh, verily the trees are highborn, (because) they support all animal life. Blessed are they, as no recipients go unsatisfied from them.
The Bhagawadgeeta adds an environmental dimension to the act of giving. The various goods and services (resources) that are available to us have not been produced exclusively by our individual efforts and enterprise alone. The cyclical mechanism of interdependence created by nature (a manifest form of the God Almighty) and reached to us by the various human organisations, (like market), have played a crucial role in the process. Hence, sustaining these natural and social mechanisms, is a boundun duty of each individual enjoying its fruits. One who does not partake this duty of keeping the cycles intact by diligently performing one’s duties as decided (by his position in the social hierarchy (Varna) and his stage in the life (Aashrama)), is a sinner, motivated by only the sensual pleasures and he lives a worthless life.
The role of giving is stressed so much, because it is usually less realised. Privileges are grabbed sooner. Responsibilities corresponding to them need exhortation.
The present generation needs these exhortations all the more. Because we are so much privilege conscious, but conveniently forget that behind every privilege, there comes a responsibility, invariably.




























